The Shalom Bayis Series
Seven Skills, Seven Verses
The world is a confusing place when it comes to issues of gender, marriage and relationships.
And yet, without Shalom Bayis (peace in the home), so many of life’s blessings cannot be fully absorbed and appreciated. In this crash course, learn the basics of how to come into your power as a woman to mold the relationship that brings out the best of you both. It is practical, skill based and foundational – yet watch how your perspectives and emotions change along the way. Chart your course of development as you become a happily married woman and feel closer to G-d while you do so. Watch as the peace in your home fosters the peace in your soul.
This is the BETA version. The comprehensive Pre-Messianic Marriage course is under construction.
Course Breakdown:
Classes 1-6: The 6 Intimacy Skills
Bonus Class! Class 7: The Torah approach to physical intimacy
Verse 1 – The Art of Self-Care
שָׂ מֻ֙נִיֻ֙ נֹטֵרָָׂ֣ה אֶת־ הַכְּרָׂמִִ֔ים כַרְּמִִ֥י שֶלִִּ֖י לִ֥אֹ נָׂטָָֽׂרְּתִי…
שָׂ מֻ֙נִיֻ֙ נֹטֵרָָׂ֣ה אֶת־ הַכְּרָׂמִִ֔ים כַרְּמִִ֥י שֶלִִּ֖י לִ֥אֹ נָׂטָָֽׂרְּתִי…
“They made me tend to [all] the vineyards, to my own vineyard I did not attend”
Song of Songs 1:6
Verse 2 – The Art of Respect
Song of Songs 1:6
Verse 2 – The Art of Respect
ע֤וּרָׂה כְּבוֹדִִ֗י …אָׂעִִ֥ירָׂה שָָֽׂחַר“
Awaken my Honor and I will Awaken the Dawn”
Tehilim 57:9
Verse 3 – The Art of Faith
וְּהַבּוֹטִֵ֥חַ בַּה֑’ חִֶ֗סֶד יְּסוֹבְּבֶָֽנּוּ “One who trusts in Hashem will be surrounded by kindness”
Tehilim 32:10
Verse 4 – The Art of Receiving
כִִּ֡י כַאֲשֶָ֣ר יֵרֵד֩ הַגֶֶּ֨שֶם וְּהַשֶֶּׁ֜לֶג מִן־הַשָׂמִַ֗יִם וְּשָֻׂ֙מָׂהֻ֙ לָ֣אֹ יָׂשִ֔וּב כִִּ֚י אִם־הִרְּוָָׂ֣ה אֶת־הָׂאִָׂ֔רֶץ וְּהוֹלִידִָּׂ֖הּ וְּהִצְּמִיחָׂ֑הּ וְּנָׂ֤תַן זֶֻ֙רַעֻ֙ לַזֹרִֵ֔עַ וְּלִֶּ֖חֶם לָׂאֹכֵָֽל…כֵָ֣ן יִָֽהְּיֶ֤ה דְּבָׂרִ י “As the rain and snow come down from heaven and don’t return until they have satiated the earth and it brings forth and blossoms giving crops to the one who planted and bread to eat.. So too the word of Hashem..”
Yeshaya 55:10-11
Verse 5 – The Art of Vulnerability
טוֹבִִ֥ים הַשְּנִַּ֖יִַ֖ם מִן־הָׂאֶחָׂ֑ד “Two are better than one”
Koheles 4:9
ל֤אֹ בִגְּבוּרַָ֣ת הַסָ֣וּס יֶחְּפָׂ֑ץ “Not in the might of the steeds does Hashem desire..”
Tehilim 147:10
Verse 6 – The Art of Gratitude
וְּאָָֽׂהַבְּתִָׂ֥ לְּרֵעֲךִּ֖ כָׂמ֑וֹך “And you shall love your fellow like yourself”
Vayikra 19:18
Bonus Verse 7 – The Art of Holiness
וְּעִָׂ֥שוּ לִִּ֖י מִקְּדָׂ֑ש וְּשָׂכַנְּתִִּ֖י בְּּתוֹכָָֽׂם “Build for Me a sanctuary and I will dwell in you”
Shmos 25:8
Verse 3 – The Art of Faith
וְּהַבּוֹטִֵ֥חַ בַּה֑’ חִֶ֗סֶד יְּסוֹבְּבֶָֽנּוּ “One who trusts in Hashem will be surrounded by kindness”
Tehilim 32:10
Verse 4 – The Art of Receiving
כִִּ֡י כַאֲשֶָ֣ר יֵרֵד֩ הַגֶֶּ֨שֶם וְּהַשֶֶּׁ֜לֶג מִן־הַשָׂמִַ֗יִם וְּשָֻׂ֙מָׂהֻ֙ לָ֣אֹ יָׂשִ֔וּב כִִּ֚י אִם־הִרְּוָָׂ֣ה אֶת־הָׂאִָׂ֔רֶץ וְּהוֹלִידִָּׂ֖הּ וְּהִצְּמִיחָׂ֑הּ וְּנָׂ֤תַן זֶֻ֙רַעֻ֙ לַזֹרִֵ֔עַ וְּלִֶּ֖חֶם לָׂאֹכֵָֽל…כֵָ֣ן יִָֽהְּיֶ֤ה דְּבָׂרִ י “As the rain and snow come down from heaven and don’t return until they have satiated the earth and it brings forth and blossoms giving crops to the one who planted and bread to eat.. So too the word of Hashem..”
Yeshaya 55:10-11
Verse 5 – The Art of Vulnerability
טוֹבִִ֥ים הַשְּנִַּ֖יִַ֖ם מִן־הָׂאֶחָׂ֑ד “Two are better than one”
Koheles 4:9
ל֤אֹ בִגְּבוּרַָ֣ת הַסָ֣וּס יֶחְּפָׂ֑ץ “Not in the might of the steeds does Hashem desire..”
Tehilim 147:10
Verse 6 – The Art of Gratitude
וְּאָָֽׂהַבְּתִָׂ֥ לְּרֵעֲךִּ֖ כָׂמ֑וֹך “And you shall love your fellow like yourself”
Vayikra 19:18
Bonus Verse 7 – The Art of Holiness
וְּעִָׂ֥שוּ לִִּ֖י מִקְּדָׂ֑ש וְּשָׂכַנְּתִִּ֖י בְּּתוֹכָָֽׂם “Build for Me a sanctuary and I will dwell in you”
Shmos 25:8
"Tamar’s crash course on Shalom Bayis has been transforming for me and my family. The concepts were unexpected and when put into practice amazingly effective. I would recommend this course for anyone who wants to enhance, improve or save their marriage."
Eve Marks
"I wish that I had been taught these Shalom Bayis principles years ago… so guilt free, easy and life changing. Treat yourself to a course that is both gentle and powerful. I am definitely going to be listening again and again bez’H"
Nicole Landau
"Rebetzin Taback’s Shalom bait crash course gave me a different outlook on my relationship with my spouse by teaching me more about myself. In such short time I acquired new simple tools that made all the difference in my life."
Yonit Sidelsky
"I really feel so grateful to Rebbetzin Tamar Taback for teaching the Shalom Bayit course with her unique depth of wisdom and understanding. Her course has encouraged, informed and equipped us with knowledge and skills that really work."
Tracy Carno
"Each and every shiur is full of practical advice and packed with insight and wisdom."
Rachel Singer
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